For so long i have been subject to many inane, idiotic claims by a member of one gender or the other saying that they are superior to the other.
For so long it has driven me insane i decided to write what i have found out about the subject.
Firstly the misconception that boys think about nothing but sex is completely false
Also is the misconception that girls don't think about sex.
The reason this is so widely believed is because people refuse to speak 100% honestly about it.
This is how boys value sex.
Boys search for sexual gratification in different ways to girls, they search for the physical release associated with sex.
This is why boys enjoy sex, they enjoy it for the physicality of it, that's not to say boys want sex all the time, that's a small portion, this only says that its why we have sex.
As to why so many young and older men are sex crazed is personal to them, maybe they as a person do not value relationships and are purely searching for the climax whatever it is i don't know.
Regardless of what boys do with their relationships this is how they view the act of sex.
As to how girls value sex
Girls value the relationship associated with sex, of course their bodies also respond to the physical nature of sex but what they really value is the intimacy achieved with giving themselves so utterly to a person.
Through the adolescent years girls change their personalities (partially consciously and subconsciously) and whilst doing this they are seeing how people respond to their new persona, they are analysing (especially the way males) react to them.
During this time if they begin to have sex with a person they subconsciously make a note that the personality and acts they are making are making people respond to them in a positive way so they keep doing them this is as to why some girls have a lot of sex, its not for the physical act its for the love associated with having sex.
They value intimacy differently to boys not to say either is wrong or right just that we are different.
Boys yes are more openly sexually promiscuous or at least that is the wider believed standard.
Girls yes some times are very promiscuous but not for the reasons most people believe.
Girls are not Better than boys and nor are Boys better than girls
We are just different.
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